You cant change whats going one around you, until you change what is going one within you…Start by changing your taught, your appearance in the morning when you go to work, your habits…and i guarantee you, you will feel much better in yourself…Sun sets for the rich people and for the pore people… Rain is poring on the rich as well as on the pore people…So don’t curse the soil that God created for you, but invest in yourself, that God given talent that you have. Develop yourself as much as you can. How much the tree grows ? As much as possibly can, going trough the ground and into the sky. So develop yourself as much as you can, find the purpose in your life, will that be to know God more then you already know, or maybe to start a family, and to provide for them. What ever that might be, develop yourself on the path that God meant you to take, and you will be happy i assure you of that.
Happiness is achieved by both giving and receiving, reaping and bestowing. Happiness comes to those who expand there horizons ( evolve ) and experiences.
Happiness resides in the Houses and families of those who have ability to handle disappointments and hard times without loosing there sense on faith and well being. Happiness is freedom of fear that grips and controls human to the point, digging us in to the ground from fear. Few understands, and among them is myself as well, at least i was. Few understand that happiness can only be experienced in the NOW ( present )…Someone will say i will be happy if i get my new car…i will be happy with new promotion at work…i will be happy if i just get one more tour trip… i will be happy if i just get one more million…i will be happy if i just both the house…i will be happy if i JUST…Just what ? You wont be any more happy as you already are, happiness is not something you can buy, it is something you need to study… And like all good things, happiness is often elusive. But it is not impossible to capture. Happiness is freedom from the negative taught, worry, low self-esteem, envy, greed , resentment , prejudice and hatred. If you suffer from these Illness then you have to turn around and follow the light.
But if you want to be happy, you need to study it, you need to “fashion” your life of happiness. In my brief experience of life on earth where nothing comes for free, i concluded that if you want to be happy you have to change your life, your thinking and your goals. Study it, ponder about it, and one day like for me it will happen for you as well. Life is an art, and you are the artist of your life, but, you have to have faith that you will succeed in your way of life, what ever that may be.
I will give you some guidance that helped me, you can implement in your life as well, or you can modify it how you like :
- Put faith ( GOD ) first in everything you do
- Learn the power of S.M.A.R.T goals
- Always learn and seek for knowledge and above all Read books
- Learn how to change ( evolve ) and adapt to any circumstances life trows at you
- Learn how to control your finances ( but don’t be slave of money )
- Learn how to make your time useful that God give you
- Surround yourself with “wealthy” people ( moral people, enlightened people, humble people )
This is the list i put together that help me greatly , and i hope that will help you as well. If any questions ill leave my info below.
“Trust his timing, Rely on his promises, wait for his answers, rejoice in his goodness, rest in his presence”